The Children

These children are so beautiful and precious! We are getting to know most of them by name. We have spent the last two days interviewing them and learning more about their pasts. Their stories are heart rending. Most, after losing both parents, have moved to several different homes before being brought here to Oasis. 

 

I will tell you about Steve*. He is/was not yet living at the children's home. He was one of the 23 that were to move in when the second half of the building was finished. After his parents died he moved in with his grandparents. They love him but feel as if he is a burden to their meager income. He is not fed very much at home and often comes to school having had no dinner or breakfast. The children's home staff have been feeding him before he goes home after school so he has some nutrition. More disturbing is that he is being mistreated at home. He is being beaten and forced to carry very heavy cartons of water long distances. He is being forced to care for the cattle by himself – he is 5 years old. Whenever he is given something – like new shoes – they are taken from him. 

 

As Jill and I interviewed him and heard about his situation from Peter, one of the incredible caretakers here, we first shed tears and prayed for him, and we asked if he should move in sooner. The children's home staff decided he would not go home that very day. We asked Peter the best way to inform the grandparents that he would not be coming home. Peter told us that would not be necessary – they wouldn’t mind if he did not come home. We found this a little hard to believe. However, we had brought a blow up pool mattress to use as a bed so we inflated that and put it on the floor – now there are 43 living at the orphanage. 

It has been two days now that he has stayed at Oasis and we haven’t even heard a word from the family… Steve is doing well! He used to come in in the mornings to school very sad – depressed. The night we told him he wouldn’t be going home anymore, he was joyful – running around, playing freely – like a huge burden had been lifted from his shoulders. He’s been that way ever since.

*name changed